He just wants to have fun. A girlfriend is not something he is looking for. Sometimes men just want to see other women as well and keep his options open. If open relationship is not for you, justleave him. He is not going to change.
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YOU are not his dream partner. He wants to get married, but not to you. He likes you, he likes spending time and having sex with you….but not forever. Most probably you will date until he meets that RIGHT woman.
He is still deciding. He probably has someone else and he hasn’t decided yet which one of you is better. In this case he may think you could his life partner, but he also has same feelings about the other woman. He will eventually commit to someone. Let’s hope it’s you.
Doubts. He has some doubts about you. It means he really likes you, but there is something about you that he would like to change or see some growth in you before he can marry you. Listen to him and try to adapt, if you really want him to commit.
No need to commit. He knows he doesn’t have to commit to you because you anyway will not leave him. You insist on exclusivity, but you keep dating or even living with the man who is not exclusive with you. You threaten to leave, but you never do! He know you love him and won’t leave. So he is not afraid of loosing you.
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If you are madly in love with him, but he does commit to you, you must take control of the situation and tell him that you will not continue relationship without commitment. Tell him that you love him, but you want serious relationship that he cannot give you. Maybe the experience of losing you, will bring him back or he will disappear forever. If he does disappear, don’t get upset. Don’t waste your time for someone who does not deserve you.
Don’t be the woman who was dating a guy for years and then he married some woman he only knew for 3 monthes!
Ask him why he does not want to have serious relationship with you. Believe his answer and take decisions accordingly. If he bring an excuse of timing issue, ask what the time frame will be. Then decide if you want to wait or not. The bad sign is when he doesn’t want to talk about it at all. So Just leave and don’t waste your time!
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