In Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever,
Claire Casey clarifies the reason why “beauty” is in fact only the third most important thing to men and how you can become radiantly attractive to men without having to alter your physique or torture yourself at the gym.
Perhaps many of you believe that watching porn is cheating…
“I’m so fed up with him watching porn that I just want to leave. When I try approach him concerning this issues he says I am just not confident enough, nevertheless porn makes me think that I’m not the woman he really wants. ” — Jenny.
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Men are watching a lot of pornography! So should you be worried about this?
Claire Casey says, “a man’s sex drive runs on “rocket fuel” most of the time. One of my guy friends told me his sex drive made him feel like he was riding a skateboard hitched to a drag racer – one that NEVER stops going. That’s an image that stuck with me. I can imagine how crazy-out-of-control it must feel. Unless he keeps it in hand (hah), there’s gonna be collateral damage and it ain’t gonna be the drag racer that gets hurt. The only way he can get the race car to pull off the track and into the pit for a breather… The one surefire way to burn off some of that constant blast of sexual energy…is to ejaculate.
In *addition* to enjoying the hell out of having sex with you, guys masturbate to burn off fuel, when they want to relax, and when they’re restless or bored.”
So if you don’t want to “work” as a sex-machine. Let him enjoy ability to watch porn and masturbate. Of course, if he consistently chooses porn over sex with you you should start to worry. It means there is a deeper problem in the relationship. In Capture His Heart, Claire Casey teaches you how to keep him totally focused on you as his absolute dream woman and how to figure out if he’s actually worthy of you.
But if you happy with your relationship and porn is the only problem, probably you should not worry about him watching porn videos.
Do you feel a competition with porn girls?
Please, don’t. Claire Casey , points out that REAL sex is times better than looking at a cold laptop…
“And he’s a man. He loves to see naked women, including YOU. And you beat them all out because he gets to touch, taste, and thoroughly enjoy you, not just look…! You’re the queen, you always have been, and so long as you’re getting all the sexual attention you want, it’s a pretty good bet that porn will never replace you.
Think of it like a cooking show. Girl, I can watch a cooking show all day long (and I don’t even have a tv, but I see these shows at the gym and at my friends’ houses). Don’t even get me started on those dudes who do the demos at the State Fair, because I’m mesmerized by them. Does it mean I don’t appreciate when my friends have me over for dinner? No. Does it mean I don’t feel treasured and cared for when my man takes me out to a really nice restaurant? Of course not, that would be silly.”
Is porn cheating?
Claire Casey’s personal position is “that watching porn is not cheating so long as YOU are still the center of his real-life sexual universe.
Porn should be no different to him than your cinematic movie crushes (and the cooking show channel) are to you – entertaining, but not something to become a stalker over.”
